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Child's safety was aim of lawmen

Nye sheriff has no regrets about agonizing decision

PAHRUMP -- Though Nye County Sheriff Tony DeMeo tried to shackle his emotions early Saturday, they escaped.

"You don't know how we agonized over whether to release pictures to the media of that little girl," the weary 56-year-old lawman said, trying unsuccessfully to choke back tears. "People may think cops are callous and cavalier, but we're not. We believed there was a child in need of rescue.


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  • "People may say we gambled, but I'm sure we did the right thing," DeMeo said, sipping on the largest coffee Starbucks has to offer.

    Fourteen hours earlier, he had conducted a news conference to announce that a young girl who was seen being sexually assaulted in a homemade video had been found safe Friday afternoon. She was in Las Vegas with her mother.

    Authorities first received the tape, described by a detective on the case as "horrifying," three weeks ago.

    With food his wife Linda had brought him growing cold on his desk, DeMeo sat at a table in his office and said he is troubled by e-mails and phone calls from people questioning his judgment, people arguing that he probably "revictimized the victim."

    "I'll take the heat for it," he said, closing his eyes as he ran his right hand through his thick shock of white hair. "I can sleep at night. We were in uncharted territory. We had no other choice."

    There was no other way, DeMeo said, that investigators would have learned of the girl's identity from a tipster Friday if the pictures hadn't been released. He said his investigators were hamstrung by not knowing any of the subjects in the video. They didn't even know what year it had been recorded or where the crime took place.

    At first, his deputies only showed photos taken from the video to administrators and teachers at schools and recreation and day care centers in Pahrump, but that effort turned up no leads, DeMeo said.

    "We were getting nowhere," he said. "And all we could think about is this girl could still be in terrible trouble. We couldn't find one other police department who has had to deal with a case quite like this."

    So, last weekend, Nye County officials provided the media with the photos of the toddler and the man who abused her.

    Normally, neither law enforcement officials nor the media show pictures of children who are victims of child abuse.

    "I'm just thankful," the sheriff said, "that the media realized there was nothing else we could do if this child was still in danger."

    Releasing the photos also paid off with identification of the suspect.

    On Friday, authorities named Chester "Chet" Arthur Stiles, 37, as a suspect in the case. Investigators believe Stiles, a former animal trainer for Siegfried & Roy, is the man seen molesting the child on the video. Stiles is also wanted by Las Vegas police and the FBI on an outstanding warrant for lewdness with a child.

    As DeMeo discussed the investigation, he called his chief detective on the case, David Boruchowitz, and put him on speakerphone.

    It was Boruchowitz, 27, who first received the videotape on Sept. 8 from 26-year-old Darrin Tuck of Pahrump.

    "Anything you could imagine an adult male doing to that little girl occurs," Boruchowitz said. "It is horrifying."

    It was also Boruchowitz who met with the mother of the child who was assaulted.

    "The mother was crying, very distraught over what happened to her child," the detective said. "But she was also very grateful. She realizes that it's always better to find out that something has happened and to cope with that. Otherwise, she knew this could happen again because of the man involved. She did not know this had happened."

    Stiles was a friend of the child's family, police said.

    Boruchowitz said the 7-year-old girl, who was believed to be about 3 at the time of the attack, seemed to be in good spirits.

    "She liked playing with my police stuff and I played with her toys," he said.

    DeMeo said after the victim's picture was shown in newspapers and on television news broadcasts, more than 5,000 people called Pahrump, saying that they believed they knew who the little girl was.

    "A lot of people now know that it wasn't their child being assaulted," DeMeo said. "Some people don't have to worry."

    DeMeo said police also were concerned that by giving the child's photo to the media the child's assailant might kill her to prevent her from ever being able to testify against him.

    "We had to weigh so many things," he said. "We finally decided that this kind of person might kill her at any time any way. At least this way we might have a chance of saving her if someone recognized her."

    Many residents of Pahrump didn't want to talk on the record Saturday about the case that has put their town in a negative national spotlight.

    But as Mike Romero, a 46-year-old salesman, worked on his pickup, he said he would have wanted his daughter's picture and name used on TV.

    "I know you have to be sensitive," he said. "But people could walk right by the victim and not help her if they don't know what she looks like."

    DeMeo, who retired after 25 years as a sergeant with the Jersey City, N.J., police department, said the toughest case he had ever worked before this sexual assault case involved a 4-year-old boy who was murdered by someone forcing alcohol down his throat.

    "What made this sex tape case so terrible was the unknown," he said, barely able to speak. "You didn't know if she was in an emergency situation where more of these attacks were happening. I'm sorry for being emotional. But this case really got to me."

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    Give me a break wrote on September 30, 2007 10:54 PM: Give me a break Donna! The mother had no idea and dont you dare say Madison needs to be with CPS! The mother is a loving mother. And the mother NEVER dated the "swine" Get your facts straight before you write anything down! The most important thing is to get help for Madison. Hopefully she is young enough that she wont remember.


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    Donna wrote on September 30, 2007 06:55 PM: Wake up you guys and give me a break! The mother is in denial! She dated the swine for 10 years, and you guys think she had no idea? Madison needs to be with Child Protection Services. The son who was on TV and said that she is "as normal as any 7 year old" is a jerk and knows nothing about child abuse. The sheriff did the right thing to post the photo to find her but as you can see, now that she is found, her face is blurred out cause all she needs now are friends asking her about the experience, etc. The mother needs to be investigated and where is Madison's father? Is it the swine or someone else? This is a classic disfunctional family relationalship situation! The only way to protect any child is EDUCATION ABOUT ALL KINDS OF ABUSE, EXPECIALLY CHILD ABUSE - WAKE UP YALL!


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    lkjk92 wrote on September 30, 2007 03:21 PM: I think the sheriff has done the right thing. These acts are happening to our children everyday. Most parents are probley unaware of them. Now this mother can be there to help her daughter deal when the time comes that she remembers these terrible acts on her. She was so young she may not even know what happen until she is older. Some children suppress bad things until they are older and then have trouble dealing with LIFE at all. Now this mother will know what is going on with her daughter. This man and others like him need to be caught and dealt with. This video was found to help catch him. To stop him from futher abuse on other little girls. This little girl could possilbe be saving many other little girls lives. God Bless the Sheriff and his team. God Bless this child.


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    DJ2 wrote on September 30, 2007 02:40 PM: I agree with mls. This is not one isolated case of brutal abuse, it's most likely the ugly tip of a very heinous iceberg. The Sheriff most certainly did the right thing, not only for the girls involved but also for the untold others who have been, may currently be, and would yet be victimized by this heartless predator and his co-conspiring ilk. Let justice be done!


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    Evelyn wrote on September 30, 2007 02:12 PM: The Sheriff did the right thing. Had he not, the mother would never have known and would not now be in a position to help her little one. I was abused at age two. My mother never knew. That was 60 years ago and the dark shadow that this cast on my entire life was long indeed. This child has a chance thanks to the Sheriff. So, if I may, I want to add my gratitude to the Sheriff of Nye county and to give some advice to the mother. Get your child appropriate help. Children, especially ones who choose to bury the memories.... such children need help so that in adulthood they are not damaged by the horror. You need support as well and I hope you are access that. You did not do this to your child. A monster did.


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    Manny Cuaresma wrote on September 30, 2007 12:22 PM: THE PEOPLE OF NYE COUNTY (AND THE REST OF THE STATE), SHOULD BE PROUD OF THE SHERIFF AND THEIR DEPUTIES.
    IT WAS A DIFFICULT DECISION ON THEIR PART TO DIVULGE THE IDENTITY OF THE YOUNG VICTIM BUT THEY DID THE RIGHT THING. JOB WELL DONE.


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    KG wrote on September 30, 2007 11:27 AM: Nye County Sheriffs made the right decision with the release of the photos. She was identified and thankfully found to be safe! Her mother now knows that there is something that happened to her child and she can take the correct steps to assist her daughter deal with the after effects as she grows. Hopefully, the case will continue on a positive note and this freak of nature will be found, found guilty and pay for his crimes! Stiles now knows that there is no place in the USA that he can go to escape, I am sure that he will be found and brought to justice.

    Bravo to Nye county Sheriffs! Without their diligence, this could have turned out so much worse than it did! Sleep well DeMeo & Boruchowitz, you made the hard decisions and they paid off! The children of Nye County are safer with you at the helm.


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    LVMOMx2 wrote on September 30, 2007 11:04 AM: They did the right thing, the most important thing is the childs saftey and trying to fing the sick person who would do that. I appalud the Sheriff.


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    Dave wrote on September 30, 2007 10:42 AM: Child safty is always the main concern in this type of case. Being a retired deputy sheriff from Los Angeles County and living in Pahrump,I understnad the concern Of Sheriff DeMeo. I also want to comend the Sheiff for making a very hard decison, but the right one. I have had interaction with the sheiffs department once for a burglary at my home. I must say that the responding deputy was very professional and knew his job. Keep up the good work guys its a hard job, alot harder then when I did it. Good work glad you are on top of it. Thanks


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    Jennifer wrote on September 30, 2007 10:40 AM: I applaud the Nye County Sheriff's Dept. This was really good old-fashioned detective work which yielded results very fast. Great work all around.


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