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JANE ANN MORRISON: Melting-pot dinner achieves kinship amid diversity

A Turkish-American group in Las Vegas invites you to a dinner of dialogue and friendship. You've never heard of the group. Could it be a front for something nefarious? Do you go?

In a heartbeat.


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  • The thought of talking history, politics and, yes, religion, with members of Las Vegas' small Turkish community made this a rare opportunity.

    A clue this was a group wanting to foster dialogue and friendship, just as advertised, was the guest list that ran the gamut of religions. Muslims, of course. But also Catholics, Christians and Jews.

    The real clue the Pacifica Institute, which sponsored Monday's dinner, was legit? The presence of Steve Martinez, head of the Las Vegas FBI, at the head table, along with an assistant special agent in charge, Mark Doh. They're a couple of careful guys, and they wouldn't be going to something that wasn't on the up and up. Unlike me, they'd check it out first because they have reputations to protect.

    In fact, Martinez earned the biggest laugh of the evening, when he asked, rhetorically, "What's the FBI doing here?" He explained how the FBI's work with diverse communities is one aspect of its mission.

    But underneath that rational explanation was recognition that post-9/11, Muslims are feared in America. While none of the 9/11 terrorists had connections to Turkey, they did have connections to Islam.

    The Pacifica Institute says its mission is "to promote cross-cultural awareness, in order to attain peace and diversity with our neighbors, help establish a better society where individuals love, respect, and accept each other as they are."

    The Las Vegas branch, which sponsored Monday's dinner for 130 at Green Valley Ranch, was formed in 2007. A dinner celebrating friendship and dialogue. Not a fundraiser, not honoring someone who might or might not deserve it, but celebrating acceptance.

    Ali Unver and his wife, Zeynep, answered my questions and also educated me about the noted Turkish preacher and scholar M. Fethullah Gulen, head of the Gulen Movement. Oxford Analytica said he has inspired a worldwide network of Muslims who feel at home in the modern world, who believe in the modernization and globalization of Islam and being open to Western ideas. News out of Turkey recently focuses on how a colonel has plotted to discredit Gulen and his followers.

    Obviously no fan of talk radio, Gulen wrote, "Dialogue is a must today, and the first step in establishing it is forgetting the past, ignoring polemical arguments, and giving precedence to common points, which far outnumber polemical ones."

    Admission: I had to look up polemical. It means involving dispute or controversy. Seems like a columnist would know that word.

    Anyway, I've learned a new word, found out something about the leader of a moderate movement with millions of followers, and sipped Turkish coffee again.

    The last time I had sipped Turkish coffee was September 2001, a few days before terrorists struck America. I was in Istanbul for five days, and among my best memories were the many kindnesses of people who helped me when I got lost on long walks.

    At the Pacifica Institute dinner, Turkish coffee was presented and explained as an act of friendship, which plays a role in courtship as well. A woman sends a signal about how she feels about a prospective admirer by preparing his coffee.

    If she makes it sweet, she's interested. Not so sweet, not so interested. If she tosses a little salt in it, then this is going nowhere.

    It's a way to send a message without words and without anyone else in the room realizing.

    Hard to beat an evening where the goal is accepting each other despite our differences.

    Our political arena could use a dose of that.

    Jane Ann Morrison's column appears Monday, Thursday and Saturday. E-mail her at Jane@reviewjournal.com or call (702) 383-0275. She also blogs at lvrj.com/blogs/morrison.

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    Neal wrote on November 08, 2009 06:27 AM: Dialogue is a must today. That was my take- home message from this dinner and your article. Muslims and the West have struggled with each other for almost 1,400 years. However, Muslims who oppose and resent the West will never help Islam or Muslims. Besides, the West needs to know that Muslim armies can no longer march on the West and the West cannot wipe out Islam or its territory. Dialog activities like this dinner show people that there really is hope for reconciliation and peaceful co-existence for both sides.


    john wrote on November 07, 2009 04:22 PM: Being neutral is not easy, being with people you do not know about indicates openness and willingness to learn and understand each other. Learning opens doors to new worlds and to peace. Telling others who are afraid of taking the first step; that it is not as bitter as seems, is a big step. One step at a time, one dinner at a time, one article at a time, steadily but surely is how friendship and peace come about.
    Thank you Ms. Morrison for expressing your unbiased views to others how it is a pleasure to know more about each other.


    Angie wrote on November 07, 2009 10:38 AM: I had thoughts about attending to the event when I was invited by Mr. Dandalar, one of the organization’s volunteers, I did have no intentions to go and for that reason I never RSVP’ed. Same day of the event, I suddenly changed my mind and attended to the dinner. The event was magnificent, volunteers’ sincerity, contribution to peace, and friendship was quite impressive. I’ve got chance to chat with quite a few Turks at the event, they are classy and highly educated too. Definitely, not Taliban type.


    brother wrote on November 06, 2009 06:29 PM: Kudos to you Jane.. It is good to see in you that prejudices do not stand on your way to get to know the other. We human beings usually tend to judge people with ready-made labels. Because it is easy. But we need to dare to disturb the comfort of our minds sometimes. Thank you for going to that dinner loooking at the other's eyes. After all these are the times to emphasize commonalities at least as much as differences. If there is a way to fight against Islamic fundementalism it is these moderate and tolerant groups. I think we should support them.


    Dave wrote on November 06, 2009 04:21 PM: This is the kind of groups and activities we need if we care about the future of our relations with the rest of the world. I am really disappointed to read comments that make mock of dialogue efforts and do scare mongering based on the identity and background of the organizers. These are idealist people who come out and try to contribute to the wellbeing of their society and rather than encouraging them we question their intentions. We should be glad that they are being part of a solution rather than being a burden. We complain about the lack or scarcity of moderate voices voices from the Muslim world, and when there is a group that exactly fulfils that positive role we decide to question their motives. This is really counterproductive. I applaud the Pacifica Institute for their contribution to our community. I thank Jane for bringing this to our attention and hope that the organizers will continue their similar efforts in the future.


    Faith wrote on November 06, 2009 01:35 PM: Jane,
    Thank you very much for letting us know that there are also good things happening in these days we have been suffering with fights, wars, diseases and crisis. I've heard similar activities by Gulen's followers all around the states. It is nothing but praises people who attend these events say about them. Once we are released from our ignorance and prejudice then we might be hopeful to have peace at mind and world.


    Turk wrote on November 06, 2009 07:05 AM: Dude Man, when did you start supporting communist China’s oppression on its own people? Where do you get your facts about the events took in 1915? Armenians sided with the Russians against the Ottoman! In those days, treason was punishable by death. Even though Ottoman was the “sick man of Europe”, that did not stop Ottoman to use their limited resources to move Armenians to safer locations in southern borders and many people died from various causes during this forced emigration. Ottoman always gave freedom of religion to its people, so please do not try to get support from Christians with your non-factual claims. Current Turkish and Armenian governments are working on peaceful ways to smooth out problems between two countries including the “so called genocide” claims.


    Huseyin wrote on November 06, 2009 12:13 AM: Jane:
    Thank you writing about this event on your column. I am a Turkish American and also one of those millions of people who have been inspired by Mr. Fethullah Gulen. We are also trying to promote Multi-cultural awareness, and contribute to our society in Los Angeles area by educational and cultural services. Building bridge is always more difuccult than destroying it. Reading positive news on the media always motivates me to do more and reach out more. Ignorance is the biggest enemy for the peace, and the solution is simple: education and dialogue. Thanks again writing about this wonderful event on your column.


    KEREM wrote on November 05, 2009 08:01 PM: It’s a wonderful, pragmatic event that should never be prejudged. Just the word “Dialogue” itself implies so much, as it brings people together who would not naturally sit down together and talk about important issues and/or differences to get to know each other, eliminate conflicts, and build bridges between the cultures, religions, and societies. Events like this particular one, play significant role in establishing peace in the societies where individuals tolerating differences. I’ve seen some negative comments written by intolerant individuals who show prejudgment, stereotype, and hate in their phrases. If that’s how they want to be like, then it’s their choice and we just respect that. This is a free country, isn’t it?


    Arturo wrote on November 05, 2009 07:38 PM: I'm a muslim and appreciate the freedom of religion being offered to me by US rather than many other so called "muslim countries".

    Thank you Jane for taking such a risk, going to such a dinner and most of all writing a story out of it.

    Dialog is a must in today's world no matter who promotes it. Some people talks the talk, some walks the walk. Some creates their own enemies and fear of them, some reaches out to unknown and make them friends.


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